Abuse equals leaving

I have watched quite a few YouTube channels on narcissistic abuse and they are all unique in their own way. The community of people, survivors, who have made it out to the other end, strengthened themselves and transformed their abuse experience into a powerful sense of purpose and voice to help others is mind blowing […]
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Freedom through bleeding

So, of course this is a new blog at the time of me writing this and it makes me think of the famous quote: “There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed.” It is actually how I felt most of my life, embracing my passion for writing […]
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The Matrix and Narcissistic abuse – Part II

Following with “The Matrix and narcissistic abuse” series, let’s analyze what is, possibly, the most “as literal literal as it gets” scene from the movie, to help us understand the dynamics of narcissistic abuse and what victims represent to narcissists. So, Neo has been pulled out of his “cocoon” or “pod” (what would you call […]
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No contact – is it the only way?

Let’s say you have a pipe leak somewhere in your house. The pipe was originally defective, but you had no idea. And it’s behind walls, so at first you don’t notice it’s leaking at all. It’s just sporadic drops from time to time, but as time goes on, those drops are more frequent and a […]
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The Matrix and Narcissistic Abuse

A couple of days ago I was thinking about the movie The Matrix and started noticing parallels between the story and narcissistic abuse. I quickly identified at least 5 analogies right from the get go and the more I thought about it, the more evident it became, that the brilliance of the movie speaks about […]
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Beyond the yellow brick road

Welcome survivors and victims of narcissistic abuse, to Over That Rainbow.  Starting a new blog often comes with its set of challenges, even for those of us who are or have been experienced bloggers. I am a writer with a technological background, someone who has worked in the industry for almost two decades. I’ve had […]
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